What Is It Like to Have Blue Hair?

Amani with blue hair and sunglasses.
Blue hair, don’t care – while it lasts!

I was in high school and college during the new British Invasion of punk and new wave. I was fascinated by London’s King’s Road and longed to saunter along the street with brightly colored hair and a quirky but cool thrifted outfit.

After years, okay decades, of being too timid, I finally dyed my hair blue!

I’m happy with how it looks (or I was once I started paying for a pro to do it). But there are some things to know before you take that plunge.

  • High maintenance. Some stylists recommend only using “cool water” when shampooing your hair – translation: cold showers.
  • I forget that I have it when talking to people and wonder why they are looking at me strangely.
  • Your employer may not like it. I waited until I was preparing to leave anyway.
  • If you have never bleached your hair before, cough up the money and pay someone to do it. I didn’t lighten enough my first time and my hair ended up so dark it looked almost black with blue highlights. I’ve just barely gotten the darkest parts cut off finally.
  • My natural color is dark brown with gray mixed in. I think white hair showing at my temples looks good with the blue, but only a few weeks after coloring my gray roots show up in my part like a skunk stripe in photos.
  • One of the biggest hassles is the color leeching or bleeding onto my white sink, my fingernails, and shirt collars. If so much as one tiny hair gets left on the side of the sink for too long, I may have to scrub with Clorox to get the tiny blue outline off.
  • Cost of touchups is over $200 plus tips. Maybe it would cost less if I did it every 6 weeks, but then I’m paying more often.
  • How you feel about yourself before you change your hair is mostly how you’ll feel about yourself afterwards. After the novelty wears off, you’re still you.

Comicpalooza 2024 in the Rearview Mirror

How was it? Exhausting! And it was fun.

Whether you are greeting people or selling something, you have to be constantly “on,” and that can wear you out. One thing that builds you back up is being with positive, supportive people. We had five authors at the booth this year – thanks to our fearless leader, Pat Daily, who made all the arrangements. Pat, Abby, and I had the YA side covered with sci-fi, urban fantasy, and epic fantasy. On the more adult side of the booth, Britta Jensen and E.A. Williams had sci-fi / fantasy and vampire thrillers.

If you haven’t worked together with other authors at a book festival or similar event, I highly recommend it. I learn something valuable from the other authors every time. And they’re just fun to be with.

Authors Abigail Morrison and E.A. Williams use a slow time at the show to braid my hair.

Penelope Was Good, but Didn’t Work For Me. Why?

Penelope is a 2008 Fantasy / Romance movie starring Christina Ricci. The fact that I just saw it this month is not unusual for me. I am often multitasking and prefer movies that I have already seen so I can listen more than watch — but that’s a whole other blog post in itself. Even though it’s over ten years old, I’ll warn you that there are BIG spoilers in this post!

The movie is basically a fairy tale – a cursed princess who needs to be rescued by a prince. A witch cast a curse that caused Penelope to be born with a pig’s nose. The curse could only be reversed by marrying a man from upper-class society. Her mother keeps her hidden from the press and routinely sets up meetings with young suitors who, one after another, run away after they see Penelope.

Penelope tires of this and after meeting an especially intriguing man who also disappoints her, she runs away from home and finally experiences the outside world. However, this man has had an influence on her, and she goes to visit places he had told her about. I was sure that he would be the one to marry her and break the curse; I just didn’t know how it would happen. Even after the world at last sees a photo of her face, she becomes a celebrity, rather than a freak. So that’s the happy ending, right? No.

When her mother tries to force her into a marriage to break the curse (with a young man who is also being pushed into it for business reasons), Penelope declares, “I like myself the way I am.” This breaks the curse.

“Oh,” I thought, “that is very modern and proper: why shouldn’t she rescue herself?” But it was also unsatisfying.

Was it because it stood out as something modern and foreign to the typical fairytale / fantasy / romance storyline? Or was it missing something more basic? What is typical in screenplays is that at the crisis point, the main character chooses a new way of being that is the opposite of whatever internal flaw they have. This choice results from the struggle they have faced during the previous 80 – 100 minutes of the movie. Even if a man is “rescuing” them, a female main character still has to be the one to make a choice that changes her life. Everything after that is just the icing on the cake – reassurance that they will be happy from then on. (Obviously, I’m not including tragedies in this discussion.)

At the end, she meets up again with the one guy who really cared about her, and they get together for a happy ending. I’ll forgive a LOT for a happy ending, but I kept wondering why her saving herself bothered me.

Maybe it was simply too “on the nose” with the character stating the point of the movie with no metaphor. We wouldn’t normally be happy if a character announced, “Oh, I’m mean to people, and I should be nice.” I think Scrooge comes pretty close to that in A Christmas Carol, but even he dresses it up in flowery language. Or perhaps because Penelope’s solution was disconnected from the love interest, it caused her (and me, as the viewer) to miss out on the human connection – which is a very basic human need.

New Year, New…Life!

“I took time off during the holidays.”

It sounds nice to say, but actually I felt exhausted after finishing the shorter-than-hoped-for first draft of my next novel. Rather than take a mere break, I basically developed amnesia about being a writer at all! I’m feeling somewhat refreshed now and getting ready for several months of intense work on a variety of things I’ve been putting off. Doctor visits, home maintenance, and a vacation of sorts top the list.

I hate when people make mysterious comments about what they’re preparing to do. It’s like, why did you bring it up if you won’t tell me? Unfortunately, I need to develop some of my plans a little more before I can talk about them publicly. One exciting thing I can mention is that I’ll be joining one of my critique partners at Houston’s Comicpalooza this year. It will be interesting – I have never been to a comic con. I’ve done plenty of trade shows as a vendor, but it was when I worked for a wallpaper company. You don’t see many people dressed in costumes at home improvement events.

Paperback Discounted on Amazon till December 31st!

I have an Amazon countdown deal going on in the U.S. through November 30th (almost over!) for the ebook, but I decided to reduce the price of the paperback through December 31st, since some people (like me) still really, really like print books.

The paperback is reduced from $13.99 to $8.99. Get yours here in the U.S.!

Since all international prices are linked to the U.S. price, the international Amazon paperback price is also reduced. (Remember, this doesn’t apply to orders from other bookstores – just Amazon.)

The UK Amazon site will have a countdown deal starting at 99p for the ebook beginning December 7th – don’t miss out!